Make Friends in Small Heath, where families meet

In three out of ten Small Heath homes, a married couple is bringing up children, nearly double the citywide share.
Happy woman at a Small Heath meet-up, a bright patterned wall behind
21,900+
residents in Small Heath ward at the 2021 census (ONS)
30%
of Small Heath homes belong to married couples with dependent children; the Birmingham share is 16% (Census 2021, ONS)
15%
of Small Heath homes have one occupant, roughly half the city’s 31% (Census 2021, ONS)

Small Heath is a place of big households

The best way to make friends in Small Heath is to build on places you already pass with your family and turn them into adult time. Small Heath Park has a lake with an island, a bandstand and a Friends group, and Small Heath Library on Muntz Street opens four days a week. Both sit just inside neighbouring Bordesley Green ward. Gofrendly also shows which Small Heath women live in the roads around you.

Making friends in Small Heath: answers

Small Heath friends: three laughing women squeezed in for a drive

Why can it be hard to make your own friends in Small Heath?

Small Heath has many large family households, and only about 15% of homes are people living alone. When the week is busy with relatives and children, time for your own friendships can slip. Setting one regular slot, like a Saturday library visit, keeps it in the diary.

Why do families head to Small Heath's park?

Small Heath Park covers 43 acres, with a lake and island, a Victorian bandstand and a basketball court. It hosts community celebrations, including Eid, and the Friends of Small Heath Park organise volunteering. In Small Heath, it is the natural place to meet other families.

Is there anything adventurous to try near Small Heath?

Ackers Adventure, a charity outdoor centre on the Small Heath and Sparkbrook edge, has climbing walls, canoeing and kayaking on the canal basin and a dry ski slope. Hours vary by season, so check before going. It makes a memorable outing with a new friend from Small Heath.

How can women in Small Heath meet each other?

With Gofrendly, a women-only friendship app, women in Small Heath can find neighbours who want company and send the first message. If your week is busy with family, a short plan that fits around school times, such as a walk round the park lake, is a realistic start.

Family life and friendship in Small Heath

Small Heath is a ward of large households. In three in ten homes, a married couple is bringing up dependent children, very few people live alone, and more than half of households are owner-occupiers. If your week revolves around family, friendships of your own need a little protected time, and a standing walk or class is the simplest way to give it, perhaps a Saturday hour at the library. Note that the park, library and wellbeing centre that carry the Small Heath name sit just over the line in Bordesley Green ward.

Even in a full house it is possible to feel lonely if no one shares your interests or stage of life. Look for things that run while children are at school, or that welcome them along. The park, the library and the canal towpath are all free to use and close by, so you will soon spot the same people if you go regularly. Places worth getting to know:

1
Small Heath Park, 43 acres with a lake, an island and a Victorian bandstand, in Bordesley Green ward.
2
Small Heath Library on Muntz Street, open Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday.
3
Small Heath Wellbeing Centre, next to the library, open seven days a week.
4
The towpath of the Grand Union Canal, a walking route across the area.
5
Ackers Adventure, the outdoor centre on the Small Heath and Sparkbrook edge, with climbing and canoeing.
LOCAL TIP
Slot whichever suits your week into the diary, same day and hour, and keep it.
How to

Small Heath: four ways to meet other women

1
Ask the Friends of Small Heath Park how to get involved in looking after the park.
2
Make the library a weekly stop and get to know the other regulars at the same hour.
3
Ask Small Heath women on Gofrendly whose children go to nearby schools to join you for a lap of the lake.
4
Plan a trip to Ackers Adventure with a new friend; trying something unfamiliar together breaks the ice quickly.

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Who put together the Small Heath page

Written by Gofrendly co-founders Claudia Gård and Ulrika Lilja with the editors, this Small Heath page is meant for women with family-filled weeks who would like a few friendships of their own nearby.

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