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A split in your forties rarely takes just the partner. Mutual friends drift, in-laws disappear and a weekend routine built over years has to be redrawn from a blank page. Staying home until you feel ready is tempting, but new friendships usually come first and confidence catches up. A monthly evening with the same women, a weekly class or a craft table gives you somewhere to be where nobody knows the backstory, which can be a relief all by itself. One yes per week is plenty for starters, and the second visit is always easier than the first, because you already know where the kettle is.
The borough’s forties age group has shot up compared with the regional trend, so you are likely to meet other women new to the area or beginning again. Rebuilding may be lonely for a while; a familiar circle makes it lighter. Places to make friends after 40 while you start again:
More guides for women in this area – each with its own local advice.
More guides for women in this area – each with its own local advice.
See who’s nearby and say hi — it’s free to start.